Wednesday, March 02, 2011
I against it
Even the strongest man in the world will collapse if one's health is not taken good care of. Not even a single man can be excused from death, no matter who you are. Everyone is being treated equally in this world. My mum once said, this is your faith, you have got to accept it. But from my point of view, if you are waiting for the mighty lord to lead you , give you sign, to decide every single thing for you, you are just pushing your luck, your opportunity, and avoid any possibility to happen. If God give you one gift, you should fully maximize it. If you can live until 80 years old, to enjoy the family laughter much more longer, please do not shorten it. If God give you good health , please please don't take advantage on it.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
New Career Path 2010
I have been thinking of changing a new role and environment for quite sometimes. Being almost 3 years in a same company, I felt I have reached a stagnant stage. Work are repetitive and became more and more tedious. Anyhow, I am joining a new company now and I will be based in JB. Many people wonder why I decided to move back to Johore after staying KL for quite numbers of years. Well, I don't want to be apart from my loved one, family, him and friends. I did hesitate when I went for the interviews. Should I leave everything behind and just go back ? Will I get used to the new city? Johore won't be as happening as KL. Yet, the period waiting for the LOA was long enough, I thought I was not selected until the day I signed on it, and now I am now officially onboard, :) !
Today is my fourth day in the new company, I will undergo a 2 weeks training in KL. Well, I can foresee myself be extremely busy. This role requires me to travel to different secondary schools for either education fair, seminar talk or even run a education fair to the public.
Maybe I should tell how the training goes start from day 1. On Day 1, C.T introduced me to all the GMO members. The team is a newly formed department, and some of then joined since last year. I was brought around to different levels to be introduced to some key persons that I will liase with in future. Apparently, I can't recognize all of them, but I can remember all of the GMO members. I was given a stack of brochures to read, so Day 1 is just self-reading day. There goes my day 1.
Day 2, continue reading. I was lucky enough to able to join their CNY Lou Sang. There was Lion Dance and Lou Sang session. This will be my fifth lou sang of this year, I trully hope my new career will bring me more return in terms of exposure, money and friends. (network).
Day 3, I will have to follow 2 colleagues to one of the SMK school in Kuchai Lama for a 2 days education fair. I drove there as the morning traffic was unfriendly and I lost in the area. Not going to elaborate on that part. Finally, I reached the school. The open air hall was full with representatives from different colleges. My task was to distribute brochures to students and try to answer their queries. But most of the time I just observed how my colleagues approach and explain the detail to the students. This is more easier for me to pick up the skills by being hands- on on the role instead of reading the kit that I was asked to read. I learnt alot and my colleagues are willing teach me, glad to know them. The fair is until 2pm, when I reached office, I was assigned a new laptop ! And is a TP, yeah! Is a happy day for me, I can online now on.
Day 4, meaning today, we went to the education fair for counselling again. As a promoter, one will have to give public speech to the students too. Today is the STPM results release day, so the talk is targeted STPM students. My colleague prepared a talk for business program, it is short but he conducted in a humour way. I should quickly pick up skills for future use.There goes my day 4.
I was really exhausted these days for woke up early in the morning and return home late due to the traffic, how frust ! Anyway, I had a great time working with all these peoples. I will have a full day traning this saturday, better be prepared before I go. Welcome challenges , night!
Today is my fourth day in the new company, I will undergo a 2 weeks training in KL. Well, I can foresee myself be extremely busy. This role requires me to travel to different secondary schools for either education fair, seminar talk or even run a education fair to the public.
Maybe I should tell how the training goes start from day 1. On Day 1, C.T introduced me to all the GMO members. The team is a newly formed department, and some of then joined since last year. I was brought around to different levels to be introduced to some key persons that I will liase with in future. Apparently, I can't recognize all of them, but I can remember all of the GMO members. I was given a stack of brochures to read, so Day 1 is just self-reading day. There goes my day 1.
Day 2, continue reading. I was lucky enough to able to join their CNY Lou Sang. There was Lion Dance and Lou Sang session. This will be my fifth lou sang of this year, I trully hope my new career will bring me more return in terms of exposure, money and friends. (network).
Day 3, I will have to follow 2 colleagues to one of the SMK school in Kuchai Lama for a 2 days education fair. I drove there as the morning traffic was unfriendly and I lost in the area. Not going to elaborate on that part. Finally, I reached the school. The open air hall was full with representatives from different colleges. My task was to distribute brochures to students and try to answer their queries. But most of the time I just observed how my colleagues approach and explain the detail to the students. This is more easier for me to pick up the skills by being hands- on on the role instead of reading the kit that I was asked to read. I learnt alot and my colleagues are willing teach me, glad to know them. The fair is until 2pm, when I reached office, I was assigned a new laptop ! And is a TP, yeah! Is a happy day for me, I can online now on.
Day 4, meaning today, we went to the education fair for counselling again. As a promoter, one will have to give public speech to the students too. Today is the STPM results release day, so the talk is targeted STPM students. My colleague prepared a talk for business program, it is short but he conducted in a humour way. I should quickly pick up skills for future use.There goes my day 4.
I was really exhausted these days for woke up early in the morning and return home late due to the traffic, how frust ! Anyway, I had a great time working with all these peoples. I will have a full day traning this saturday, better be prepared before I go. Welcome challenges , night!
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
This keep running on my mind since 2 days ago, what will happend if everyone stays under one roof ? Will everyone be happy if you keep all the love one close instead of giving them their own space. Taking care of everyone is good but sorry I don't think this is a good arrangment. If I can choose I will say I am not willing to do so !
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Love hurts the most
Love hurts the most, and women (I mean myself) put too much of effort in building the relationship, sacrifice my own time to travel just to see him. No one force me to do so , I did it with my 100 % willing heart. Yet, in return I don't get what I expect I suppose to get. You may say love is about sacrifice, don't expect return (not in money form), but this could be the greatest motivation for you to continue your effort ! Do you still treat her very well even she treated you cold as ice ? No, right? For me I won't, not to make people feel irritated and yet embarassed myself.
Different between man and women. For Man - focus on career, his family, quality time with buddies. GF is not always the priority, work, family and friends come first. For Woman- career is just a temporary role before enter into marriage. Might change job, relocate or quit it for her famiily, sacrifice time for kids or help up her husband career. Her Family- Spend more time with his family than her own family and is willing to do so. Visit them once in a blue moon if no where to go. Her Buddies- Not seeing them if BF is around, seldom bring BF to see them as she wants to have more private moment with him. Or, bf wants her to follow to his buddies gathering. Does it seems familar to you ?
That was me, do everything according to my heart, and yet being calculative for the return. Maybe I am too seriuos about this relationship and willing to put all my heart into it. Maybe I am not mature enough to handle a relationship wisely. I told myself, not to be selfish, not to be jeolous, try to be content with what you got. But, all these emotions comes naturally, my mum never taught me to be selfish & jeolous. Am I being selfish to have more time spend together, meeting twice a month is it too much ? I have no clue, whatever...*shrug*
Different between man and women. For Man - focus on career, his family, quality time with buddies. GF is not always the priority, work, family and friends come first. For Woman- career is just a temporary role before enter into marriage. Might change job, relocate or quit it for her famiily, sacrifice time for kids or help up her husband career. Her Family- Spend more time with his family than her own family and is willing to do so. Visit them once in a blue moon if no where to go. Her Buddies- Not seeing them if BF is around, seldom bring BF to see them as she wants to have more private moment with him. Or, bf wants her to follow to his buddies gathering. Does it seems familar to you ?
That was me, do everything according to my heart, and yet being calculative for the return. Maybe I am too seriuos about this relationship and willing to put all my heart into it. Maybe I am not mature enough to handle a relationship wisely. I told myself, not to be selfish, not to be jeolous, try to be content with what you got. But, all these emotions comes naturally, my mum never taught me to be selfish & jeolous. Am I being selfish to have more time spend together, meeting twice a month is it too much ? I have no clue, whatever...*shrug*
Sunday, December 06, 2009
Another sleepless night
It is proven having lots of things on your mind late at night will make you toss and turn on the bed until 5am in the morning. And this is happened to me right now. Yes, I am here writting my first blog in Dec because I couldn't sleep and need to do something to pass the time.
I did not change at all in terms of my characteristic after 2 years of working life. My friends still treated me as cold as before and I really have no clue what to do. I always thought that there is a gap between me and them, a barrier where block our communication.
I am always the one who will be neglected.They stayed close to 3 of them and I am left out. I didn't enjoy today's gathering at all but I pretended to.What is my problem ? I have really tried my best to mix with them but the first sentences came out from her mouth really pissed me off.
Why should all of you have to cling together, why can't you all walk separately, why can't you look at me ?
There was one time I asked a master of feng shui is there a problem with my interpersonal relationship with others. He said not but all depend on one's attitude. I know I don't talk much but I have nothing to say. I really like to be surrounded.Why why why ?!!
I did not change at all in terms of my characteristic after 2 years of working life. My friends still treated me as cold as before and I really have no clue what to do. I always thought that there is a gap between me and them, a barrier where block our communication.
I am always the one who will be neglected.They stayed close to 3 of them and I am left out. I didn't enjoy today's gathering at all but I pretended to.What is my problem ? I have really tried my best to mix with them but the first sentences came out from her mouth really pissed me off.
Why should all of you have to cling together, why can't you all walk separately, why can't you look at me ?
There was one time I asked a master of feng shui is there a problem with my interpersonal relationship with others. He said not but all depend on one's attitude. I know I don't talk much but I have nothing to say. I really like to be surrounded.Why why why ?!!
Monday, November 30, 2009
Long-winded
Dedicated this post to 2 long winded uncle and aunty I met in Labis. Although you two will not have the chance to read this, but your behaviour are recorded in a blog forever.
1)Asam Fish Restaurant
Xien Xien came over to Labis for a holiday break. I have been telling him a nice asam fish in town and wanted to bring him there for a try. Dad wasn't joining as he was attending a wedding dinner, so left only mum , xien and myself.
The restaurant was full and we waited for so long. While we were waiting, one of the owner (around sixty)walked by and sit at the next table behind us. He has dislocated his right arm and his shoulder was wrapped up with bandage. Being concern, mum asked him what had happended to him, he walked over and told us the incidence. Apparently, he was involved in an accident where he fell off the motorcycle and caused the dislocation of his right arm. He visited both chinese medical and general hospital , however both treatments didn't cure his injured arm, so he's still seeking for a remedy. Poor uncle. Then he began to elaborate how he seek for doctors, treatments, who recommend him doctor, who gave the contact numbers etc. Then again he repeats the incidents again! I 'm the first to turned my face away, then followed by my mum. Poor Xien Xien has to listen as he was the only one has eye contacts with the uncle. blah blah blah. Finally the food arrived, we have a reason to stop listening to him. Then he left. I told Xien that he was really patient, but he said his mind was blank while listening, haha, funny.
2) Laksa Noodle
This family who run their noodle business in thier house is one of my favourite eating spot. I have been eating it since secondary school. Xien accompanied me here to have a try on the wantan noodle. As we seated, a lady from our back keep looking at our direction, she is one of my secondary school mate mother. I saw her but I pretended I didn't, Xien Xien noticed it and asked me to say Hi. OK, after saying Hi she came over, sit besides us and asked questions. You know why I ignored her ? Because she is one of the ampifier in Labis and love to talk and long-winded. Oh dear, both of us regretted and to my dismay our food was sucks ! Not going to elaborate what she actually asked, those questions surrounded : where is your bf from, when do u two getting married, I seldom see you in Labis, and repeated for few times. Sigh, food was suck and people interrupted us during our meal.
1)Asam Fish Restaurant
Xien Xien came over to Labis for a holiday break. I have been telling him a nice asam fish in town and wanted to bring him there for a try. Dad wasn't joining as he was attending a wedding dinner, so left only mum , xien and myself.
The restaurant was full and we waited for so long. While we were waiting, one of the owner (around sixty)walked by and sit at the next table behind us. He has dislocated his right arm and his shoulder was wrapped up with bandage. Being concern, mum asked him what had happended to him, he walked over and told us the incidence. Apparently, he was involved in an accident where he fell off the motorcycle and caused the dislocation of his right arm. He visited both chinese medical and general hospital , however both treatments didn't cure his injured arm, so he's still seeking for a remedy. Poor uncle. Then he began to elaborate how he seek for doctors, treatments, who recommend him doctor, who gave the contact numbers etc. Then again he repeats the incidents again! I 'm the first to turned my face away, then followed by my mum. Poor Xien Xien has to listen as he was the only one has eye contacts with the uncle. blah blah blah. Finally the food arrived, we have a reason to stop listening to him. Then he left. I told Xien that he was really patient, but he said his mind was blank while listening, haha, funny.
2) Laksa Noodle
This family who run their noodle business in thier house is one of my favourite eating spot. I have been eating it since secondary school. Xien accompanied me here to have a try on the wantan noodle. As we seated, a lady from our back keep looking at our direction, she is one of my secondary school mate mother. I saw her but I pretended I didn't, Xien Xien noticed it and asked me to say Hi. OK, after saying Hi she came over, sit besides us and asked questions. You know why I ignored her ? Because she is one of the ampifier in Labis and love to talk and long-winded. Oh dear, both of us regretted and to my dismay our food was sucks ! Not going to elaborate what she actually asked, those questions surrounded : where is your bf from, when do u two getting married, I seldom see you in Labis, and repeated for few times. Sigh, food was suck and people interrupted us during our meal.
So these are the highlight when I'm having holiday break in my hometown, nothing special happen but meet different people in small town. I don't blame them for talking too much , perhaps they just need a pair of listen ears, but not during my meal la!
Thursday, November 26, 2009
8TV catch up TV
I am still awake at this wee hour. It is not because of I can't sleep but I am busy watching all the catch up show in 8tv.com. Thanks Belinda Chee(Quickie host) who actually attached the link of 8TV in her personal blog. I have found another thing that makes me follow instead of going to bed. I gonna yawn in the office later. I would like to recommend The Adjuster which is currently on air. It talks about how an adjuster does the background check before he approve the insurance compensation the beneficiary suppose to get. I started watching from episode 5, which Belinda acted. The story is interesting and I love it very much. Good job! Besides this drama, I am following I Wanna Be A Model 3.
Hooray, Friday is a public holiday and I will drive back to my hometown (Labis). Have checked with all the old friends but none of them plan to go home ?! I always picked the wrong time. Nevermind, should spend some quality time with parent over this weekend. Looks like the 3rd episode of IWBAM has finished downloaded, I shall continue watching it, good night.
Hooray, Friday is a public holiday and I will drive back to my hometown (Labis). Have checked with all the old friends but none of them plan to go home ?! I always picked the wrong time. Nevermind, should spend some quality time with parent over this weekend. Looks like the 3rd episode of IWBAM has finished downloaded, I shall continue watching it, good night.
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